<p>Delightful story.</p> <p>You said that the Charedim take the most super machmir approach to geirus requiring and acceptance of Torah and Mitzvos. That is actually the minimum according to many poskim.&nbsp;</p> <p>The accusation that the Charedim don't care about anybody but themselves is not fair and inaccurate. They would love for everybody to keep Kashrus etc. they just realize that they have no power to impose upon others. They also don't want to bend halacha to bring more Jews in. The heter mechira brings about many halachic problems כידוע.&nbsp;</p> <p>There is more to say....&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p>